Inspirations-->Actions-->Miracles

I think most of you all read this book b4. It is really a good book for us(women) to read. This book is all about how to communicate with your love one. :) Anyway i just wanna share a chapter here. Now, please do this quiz with me 1st. This quiz is to test are you gifted with a good life in love?
Here it is:
Imagine that you are on the street and saw a man walking his chihuahua, suddenly here came another big dog barking at the chihuahua. What will happen next?

A) the man quickly carry his chihuahua and kick the dog.
B) the man drag the chihuahua away from the big dog.
C) chihuahua ran towards the big dog.
D) the big dog jump on the man and chihuahua ran away.
E) nothing happen.

Answer:
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A) you got *****
Congrates!! you grown up in love. You always loved by others and you used to take k by others. When you are in a relationship, you always play your role as your man lady making your love one want to protect / take k of you, you are born to be loved. BUT!! Sometimes you tend to rely on others too much.

B) you got ***
Others take you as a girl that can take care of herself well. In love, you will give more than your spouse, sometimes your man would forget that you are a girl(you need love too). You will take good care of others whenever/wherever you are. on the others hand your spouse will feel neglected.

C) you got *
I am sorry, but you got a very tough & independent characteristic you makes man feel bad. He can't find a way to love you. You are too capability and too strong, your spouse failed to love you. There are only army/navy able to take care of you.

D) you got ****
You are tough too but you are sexy as well. You have your own personality that few man can refuse to love you. Most of the guys willing to do anything for you and you love being a princess. BUT you do not how to appreciate those guys.

E) you got **
You live in your own world. You are unreachable. No man can go into your world. They will tried to understand you but at the end they chose to let go you.




Okay, now share my understanding from the book with you.
The author brings the story by his friend experience.
He stated that, the girl always listen to her bf and never argue with him but her bf betray her. She said that men are animal, they always flirt around. The author agreed that men are all animal but as long as you know the right way to make him happy he will always follow you and be your pet. The author's friend claimed that when her bf order seafood, she won't order another kind of food. From this, she seems like a good gf. But after the author observation, she actually is not an understanding gf. She is just like a robot that received input from her bf, and execute it. Guy do not really need a robot to be his gf. So, we have to know when to speak and when to be quiet not all the way listen to bf. Actually, man, they have a kid live inside tho they like to control. They do hope that we(women) can take care of them when they are weak. Sometimes we tend to teach our bf what to do when they faced problem. We should pat them or sit beside or maybe hug them when they are weak, not mumbling. Girls do not really need to be very pretty, but must be understanding and caring. I am writing this not saying women should lower themselves, is just that i wanted all my friends to have a good relationship with their spouse. I think women born to be lovable, just do a little changes, make a big step forward. For man, please do appreciate what we done for you. Relationship is all about "us". 1+1= everything. 2-1= nothing.
Love with peace,
Eunieece

Happy Mothers' day to my mother and yours. :)
Would like to share bit of my mom here:
Back to my childhood memories( before 13yrs old). She is actually quite fierce. She don't allow me to go out to play in playground till late evening. She love scolding me. Due to that, I do not like to let her know when I get injured. Cos I am sure she will scold me if i get hurt. But she is always there when I get involved in any activities especially my sport competitions. She always came to support me even when she is working. Then I knew that, whatever she did is just her way in showing her love to me. There are still a lot more about my childhood with her but I am not gonna tell it all here cos it will be pages then.
Now, we are all grown up and we all went out for studies or work. We have less time to accompany our parent. I just came back to my home last Fri and is going back to work place tomorrow. Yeah, came back for Mothers' day. Is just a short period gathering with them. Mum will be very busy when we all came back to home. She will cook our favorite dishes( she had 5 children, each with diff. tastes) for us and stand for the whole day in kitchen. She is sleeping now after a tiring day. She is not scolding anymore. I think she is getting old but I have less time to accompany her.
I guess every mother out there are the same as my mother. The love showered by our mother is so grand that we do not know how to return to them. She sacrifice herself for us and yet we still having argument with her? She is trying to talk to us but are we not taking it for granted? She is trying to please us but why are we hard to please her back? We go back to her when we face problem. She is always there when we need her. She weather the storm with us. I truly appreciate that. She did the best for us but not herself. I wanna accompany her more, the best thing I can do is breakfast with her in the morning and share her problem like a friend.
What can we do better now? I think our mother needs our care, care, care and care. We can say I love you to our spouse, so I think we should practice it on our parents too. Showing how much we love them and care for them as much as we can now. Is our turn to take care of them. I know we can do it better. I love you.